Canadian women share intimate tips on sex
Reported May 12, 2011,
Canadian women from coast to coast to share their best sex tips (but changed their names to protect their privacy). Read on to get inspired:
1. Rev your engine
To get in the mood for an evening of sex, I start thinking about it in the afternoon and fantasizing about how good it will feel. By the time I put my toddler to bed and have a glass of wine, I already feel aroused. Jana, Toronto
2. Give to receive
Be generous outside of the bedroom with foot rubs, shoulder rubs and loving words. Little signs of affection can build up and put you both in a mood that you werent necessarily expecting. Pauline, Winnipeg
3. Steam things up
My husband and I shower together four or five days a week. Most mornings were simply shampooing and soaping before the kids get up, but it sure is sexy to see his glistening body like that. And there is the occasional morning when we start making lunches a little later than usual… Kerry, Toronto
4. Carve out some alone time
We send our four kids downstairs to watch cartoons on Saturday mornings and then we have a quickie to start off the day. Catherine, Saint John, N.B.
5. Dont forget the lube
Forget diamonds, lube is a girl’s best friend when it comes to giving hand jobs or oral sex. Make a big show of pulling it out and squeezing a dollop into your palmand watch his eyes pop out of his head when he realizes whats next. Jill, Toronto
6. Make laundry day more fun
“Sit on top of the washing machine during the rinse cycle with your partner standing up, facing you. Good vibrations, baby! Vicky, Thunder Bay, Ont.
7. Play games with each other
We like to turn regular board games into sex games; each point represents something sexual, like a kiss. Katrina, Edmonton
8. Connect again
About once a week, after we put our daughter to bed, we crawl into our bed together with the newspapers. We read and have an adult conversation thats unrelated to bills and chores. Inevitably, we start flirting and having sex. Diane, Oakville, Ont.
9. Rent a sexy movie
We subscribe to a movie rental delivery service called skinflix.ca. We like a series of adult films called, For Couples Only. We have a DVD player in the bedroom and weve never made it through a whole movie from start to finish… Sarah, Kingston, Ont.
10. Take charge
Confidence is a turn-on. If youre comfortable with your body, youre more able to relax and have fun. And when youre more assertive, theres less performance anxiety for him. Keisha, Whitehorse, Yukon
11. Play together
Play a recreational co-ed team sport, like volleyball, with your partner. It will help keep you both fit, relieve stress and youll work as a team. It builds camaraderie and spices things up in the bedroom. Lorraine, Toronto
12. Visit a nude beach
Once you get over being naked, its really freeing and relaxing. We always end up having sexback in the hotel rooma couple of times a day. Emily, Mississauga, Ont.
13. Have a make-out session
For my 36th birthday my husband surprised me after dinner by taking me dancing. Before we knew it, we were making out on the dance floor, his hands all over me like a frat boy, and mine likewise! Perhaps you could call it a little dance floorplay! Jasmine, Toronto
14. Trade in your thong
Despite the fact that we torture ourselves with uncomfortable underwear, guys dig white cotton, especially under jeans. I think it works because it’s unexpected, it’s innocent and it shows confidence. Stephanie, Guelph, Ont.
15. Put sex first
Its harder to find time together when the kids are teenagersthey stay up later than you do and know what you are up to, which is icky for everyone. So sometimes you have to put your relationship before the kids; that might mean missing your childs practice or game to sneak home and have time together, but its worth it. Terry, Rothesay, N.B.
16. Play with toys
Sex can be boring when its the same old, same old. Sex toys, like vibrators, lubricants and edible paint, are a real turn-on and add variety to sex. Claire, Toronto
17. Escape the everyday
Once or twice a year, we book a night at a hotel. Getting away from our kids and all of the responsibilities at home helps us let loose and focus on us. Leah, Toronto
18. Share a bedtime story
We invent stories for one another: it can be a sexy story about the two of us having sex in a new location or something more risqué. We also like read each other sexy short stories or passages from a book; one of our favourites is The Gates of Paradise by Albert Manguel. Maria, Toronto
19. Take the wheel
You cant sit around waiting for someone to make you happy; that goes for sexual happiness, too. When my partner bought a new truck, I thought it would be erotic to join him on the road to christen it. Three hours into the drive, I realized he wasnt going to stop, so I took off my bra. He pulled off at the next ramp and we indulged in some very hot sex. Paige, Dieppe, N.B.
20. Pay him a compliment
Women expect and need compliments and men do, toothey just dont ask for it. If he knows that you think hes sexy, hell try harder in bed to please you and prove that youre right. Megan, Toronto
Credits :Rhea Seymour and more details on http://www.besthealthmag.ca/sextips
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