Change your thoughts
A man once telephoned Norman Vincent Peale. He was despondent and told the
reverend that he had nothing left to live for. Peale invited the man over to his
office. "Everything is gone, hopeless," the man told him. "I'm living in deepest
darkness. In fact, I've lost heart for living altogether."
Norman Vincent Peale smiled sympathetically.
"Let's take a look at your situation," he said calmly. On a sheet of paper he
drew a vertical line down the middle. He suggested that they list on the left
side the things the man had lost, and on the right, the things he had left. "You
won't need that column on the right side," said the man sadly. "I have nothing
left, period."
Peale asked, "When did your wife leave you?"
"What do you mean? She hasn't left me. My wife loves me!"
"That's great!" said Peale enthusiastically. "Then that will be number one in
the right-hand column—Wife hasn't left. Now, when were your children jailed?"
"That's silly. My children aren't in jail!"
"Good! That's number two in the right-hand column—Children not in jail," said
Peale, jotting it down.
After a few more questions in the same vein, the man finally got the point and
smiled in spite of himself. "Funny, how things change when you think of them
that way," he said.
Change your thoughts and you change your world.
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