Lifesaver on Weight loss hurdles
We all have days like this when our motivation is low
and our need to overeat or be a couch potato takes over.
But it's best to bust those excuses before they become a
well worn mantra of failure.
Cultivating true resilience is a lifelong process.
Lifesaver #1: Use the buddy system
Corny but proven: You get by with a little help from
your friends. Nine out of 10 women in Werner's study
said they relied on their friends for emotional support
– but not just any friends. It's about quality," Werner
says. "People who survive adversities usually have one
or two close friends from early in life." Having a
social life is one thing, but having someone to talk to
is the thing.
Lifesaver 2 Mine that silver lining
In order to remain resilient, you need to learn how to
dig the positive treasures out of the muddiest pit, but
– pessimists, stay with us – true optimism is not just
thinking annoyingly happy thoughts all day long. Rather,
it's believing that you have the power to bring about
good results, or at least fix the bad ones, says Susan
C. Vaughan, M.D., an assistant professor of clinical
psychiatry at Columbia University in New York City".
Lifesaver#3 Look for better excuses
The gym may have closed down or membership fees may be
astronomical, but keeping fit and exercising needn't
cost a penny or be painful or inconvenient. Why not
start a walking club with others who want to lose
weight? This is a great way to socialize and keep each
other motivated - not to mention an enjoyable way of
earning extra exercise points. The courageous among you
could start a beginners' jogging club. Set yourself
realistic goals and see yourself improve. Exercise isn't
something that should be constricted to the realms of
dieting and weight loss, it should be, and indeed anyone
who undertakes any sort of regular exercise will tell
you, it is fun.
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