Char Borley is a celebrity and a glamour model that has been featured in major tabloids, such as OK! , FHM , PLAYBOY , WWE , SKY SPORTS , not to mention her continuing International magazine covers and has been dubbed the one to watch out on your screens for 2023. With over 500,000 followers across Instagram and being one of the top worldwide content creators, Char gives us her personal advice and insights into her sex life and experiences.
Women Fitness President Ms. Namita Nayyar catches up with Char Borley a leading glamour model, here she is in frank talks about her sex life and her sexual experiences.
Every woman on earth has fantasized about some explicit sexual fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to talk about. Everyone has a forbidden fantasy of her own. Women’s sexual fantasies recently published a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, by Researchers at the University of Montreal concluded top fantasies as below:
| I like to feel romantic emotions during a sexual relationship | 92.2% |
| Taking part in oral sex | 78.5% |
| Having sex in an unusual place | 81.7% |
| Atmosphere and location are important in my sexual fantasies | 86.4% |
| Having sex in a romantic location | 84.9% |
| Having sex with someone that I know who not my spouse is | 66.3% |
| Masturbating my partner | 68.1% |
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
Tell us your own experience with sexual fantasies and how do you vouch for they being a fully healthy way of reaching one ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
Firstly thank you for having me. I’m very excited to be here.
Personally I find sex in public places and role-play is a huge turn on for me. I adore playing a role in the bedroom.
I like to play a forbidden role such as mommy, or playing up to ‘daddy’… it’s a huge growing fetish that I have recently seen double since the world-wide pandemic. Related or not, I am not sure however I do believe fetishes and kinks are growing immensely and I’m here to cater that.
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
To investigate riddles at the heart of female erotic fantasy, a team of researchers based at the University of North Texas and the University Of Notre Dame studied 355 young women. The results of the study, (which also explored other sexual and aggressive fantasies, self-esteem, attitudes to sex, and other personality testing) are that 52% of the women had fantasies about forced sex by a man, 28% – of forced oral sex by a man: 16% – forced anal sex: 24% – incapacitated: 17% – forced sex by a woman: 9% – forced oral sex by a woman. Overall, 62% reported having had at least one of these fantasies. What is your advice for the women, what they should indulge in order to achieve their sexual bliss and ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
Forced sex as fantasy is a very big turn on for so many, it can be an overwhelming orgasm when both parties are consensual. Something I have experienced in a tied up manner and the orgasm was incredible!
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Ms. Namita Nayyar:
High-testosterone women may be less interested in slipping between the sheets with a lover, high testosterone is linked to greater interest in masturbation in healthy women, according to research detailed online in May in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior, study researcher Sari van Anders, a behavioral neuroendocrinologist at the University of Michigan. What advice do you have for such women who masturbate more than have sex and how can they achieve the ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
This question speaks volumes to me! I am definitely a high sexed individual and masturbate many times daily. I find having sex toys really helps, but I love and adore being watched, and I love public experiences. I tend to share a lot of these experiences with my fans…
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
Canadian researchers studied sexual pleasure and pain sensitivity in women. They found that when women were aroused or partially aroused (immediately after sexual activity or after a 15-minute rest period), their genital pain sensitivity was higher than it was when the women were not aroused. In other words, the study subjects reported more pain when they were aroused. For women, vaginal lubrication is an important part of sexual arousal. It readies the vagina for penetration, reducing any accompanying friction or irritation. Does lubrication play a role in achieving the ultimate orgasm? What advice do you have for women on whether they should use lubrication to achieve sexual pleasure?
Char Borley:
Lubrication is a must!! Without this it can be a very unpleasant experience. Foreplay and lubrication eases this and helps to prepare the vagina and stimulates the vagina for pleasure! Always lube or lick!
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
Research from The Journal of Sexual Medicine, Volume 8, 2011 says that stimulating your nipples can increase sexual arousal, and pleasure, and even lead to orgasm. The researchers discovered that stimulation of the nipple activated an area of the brain known as the genital sensory cortex. This is the same brain region activated by stimulation of the clitoris, vagina, and cervix. What this means is that women’s brains seem to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way. Nipple piercings can increase sensitivity. So it would seem that nipple piercings have the potential to directly affect your sexual pleasure. Piercings make nipples more sensitive, so when having sex and anything touches them, one gets more aroused and feels a tingling sensation. Do throw light on the role of breasts simulation to achieve greater sexual bliss and ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
Nipple stimulation. Can be a huge turn on for many, remember all women are different and some may actually not like it!
Personally I love it immensely. A nipple suck, lick and caress are something that for myself is a huge turn on. Paying attention to my huge nipples is something that absolutely gets my juices flowing.
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
Published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior, a team of US researchers analyzed data collected through an online survey, hosted on the NBC News website, based on responses from more than 52,000 participants aged between 18 and 65 who were in a relationship with one person. A study from a team of US researchers suggests that a combination of genital stimulation, deep kissing, and oral sex is the “golden trio” for women when it comes to increasing their likelihood of reaching orgasm with a sexual partner. According to the research, only 35% of heterosexual women always or usually orgasm during vaginal sex alone, with 44% saying they rarely or never did. By contrast, 80% of heterosexual women and 91% of lesbians always or usually orgasm with a combination of genital stimulation, deep kissing, and oral sex – but without vaginal sex. What is your view on the role of cunnilingus or female oral sex and women achieving ultimate female orgasm?
Char Borley:
Passionate kissing with a few of my partners has been what straight away leads into a passionate sexual experience that with me, always leads on to sexual intercourse! As a very highly sexed person kissing is also an intimate experience that I adore. More couples should take the time to kiss each other more passionately.
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
Research titled “Characteristics of vibrator use among women” by Clive M. Davis, Joani Blank, Hung‐Yu Lin & Consuelo Bonillas Department of Psychology, Syracuse University concludes Vibrators were used primarily to enhance sexual responsiveness and sexual pleasure, most commonly in autoerotic activity, but, for more than two-thirds of the sample, also in partnered activity. A majority indicated orgasms triggered by vibrator stimulation were more intense than others. Nearly half experienced multiple orgasms when using a vibrator. Most were very satisfied with their orgasmic experience in autoerotic activity and were either moderately or very satisfied with their orgasmic experience in the partnered activity. Kindly tell us how you view the use of a vibrator can assist a woman to achieve the ultimate orgasm.
Char Borley:
I have a big love affair with my sex toys. I use them every day to achieve an orgasm! I find the toys that highly stimulate the clitoris, such as a suction toy or a rabbit. I personally like a little pocket bullet that I carry around in my purse so I always have access to it. I recently had a amazing orgasm in a public car park whilst people were walking by…
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
In North America, the number of sexually explicit books, written by and most often directed at women, has increased by 324% from 1991 to 1998 while the overall number of published books increased by only 83% (Juffer, 1998). The ever-increasing popularity of the internet has given women greater opportunities to produce and distribute their own representations of pornographic material (Ciclitira, 2004). A recent study showed that nearly fifty percent of female students in colleges across the United States use pornography, and report it as an acceptable way to express their sexuality (Carroll et al., 2008). More current research in the area of pornography supports the idea that women use and enjoy pornography. Smith (2003) qualitatively documented women’s enjoyment and use of sexually explicit publications. Recent studies suggest that the use of pornography is positively correlated with lower levels of sexual anxiety and higher levels of sexual excitement. These findings move away from a harm-based approach and suggest the positive factors that may be associated with pornography use. Tell us how women can enjoy sex and reach orgasm with the use of watching pornography.
Char Borley:
Being a content creator I LOVE creating my own pornographic videos for my fans. My viewers find this a very pleasurable experience being able to control their fantasies and having me act them out to their personal preference.
Pornography should be something to be enjoyed and not be a touchy subject. Pornography can be a pleasurable experience when also shared with your partner, I have made many videos for couples to personally enjoy. The feedback is always, always very good!
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
A recently published survey of 52,000 adults has backed up a longstanding piece of conventional wisdom about orgasms: Of lesbian participants, 86 percent reported usually or always orgasming during sexual activity. The authors of the study propose that women may give their female partners more orgasms than men do because Give your view whether the one-night stand of sex between women can help a female to achieve ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
I think it’s a difficult thing to state that a woman can pleasure a woman better. Yes they are aware of what they like so they can perform to their likes, but remember no 2 women are the same still. Ive had sex with both male and female partners and ive had cases where I couldn’t orgasm with the woman also.
I think women can teach each other and help achieve orgasms, absolutely! However so can men.
Ms. Namita Nayyar:
The study “She Dresses to Attract, He Perceives Seduction” by Avigail Moor published in the Journal of International Women’s Studies has one of the conclusions that men are highly aroused by the revealing look of women. How can revealing erotic dressing help in achieving sexual crescendo, ultimate sexual bliss, and happiness in reaching ultimate orgasm?
Char Borley:
Dressing up can be a huge part of role-play, a specialty of mine! It can help create romance and the feeling of being seductive, to be alluring to our partner.
It can help make the individual also build confidence in bedroom, the role-play of being somebody else. It’s much easier sometimes to focus on a character to ease away any insecurities and it’s just fun!
I would advise any couple that haven’t attempted dress up or role play to simply give it a go. It’s fun, playful and it doesn’t mean going crazy. After all dress up can simply mean sexy lingerie, stockings. Remember it’s YOUR sex life and it’s YOUR experience. You make it what you want it to be. There’s never no right or wrong.
And remember if things go as you planned, laugh. Don’t be embarrassed- it happens! Just laugh and make it just another silly sexy memory that you and your partner will share between you.
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